Scion of NLP

Real danger is a part of many experiences in life — skydiving … bungee jumping … smacking an angry bear with a dead fish … motorcycle racing … the list is endless. However, there is one thing that can destroy a life which most people are unaware of … that something is called “Self Improvement!”

Ya’see, the innate drive to learn is born into all of us (it’s just part of our unconscious programming) simply as a way to learn. You touch the stove & get burned – you’ve “learned” something … but … what if you want more than just “learning to survive?” — what if you want to make your life better?

Whether you agree or not, it’s true that all those workshops and seminars about “self empowerment” actually do work (Tony Robbins ain’t rich by accident!) … the problem is that when you improve yourself it changes how you experience life … which changes how you interact with the people around you! So I have to say …

** WARNING! ** Overcoming depression has a tendency to cost you friends — if you meet someone when you’re depressing, then you’ll connect with them on that level of thinking … so, when your unhealthy ways of thinking and acting change, the people who remain on that level of thinking won’t be able to “connect” with the new un-depressed version of you because you won’t act and think in the way they’re used to — and people dislike it when predictable things change because it makes them feel like they’re losing control over parts of their life … that’s when they start saying things like, “You’ve changed!” and “You’re not the same person that I met!” –

And there’s the rub! — the truth is that you ARE the same person deep inside! With the same old habits of depression … but the difference is now you know the danger of letting those old habits take over … and now you know how to catch yourself when you’re doing them … and you know how to stop doing those old habits of depressing so that you can have the enjoyable life you want! … however, you may need to enjoy your new life with new friends who will support the healthy ways you perceive and interact with the world.

** REMEMBER ** When you’re improving your life using NLP it’s important to keep in mind that the friends who’ll last are the ones who can support you in your Self Improvement … or perhaps they’ll even join you on the journey!

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